Crazy Women

BY DAVE GOLOKHOV

There’s obsessive-compulsive disorder, and then there’s this next story.

A Dutch woman put all insecure girlfriends to shame when she called her ex-boyfriend 65,000 times this past year. Rumor has it that it all started when he went for a beer with his friends after a movie and didn’t check in with her. Allegedly.

You think you’ve got it bad because your chick wants to check in once per day? She’s got nothing on this 42-year-old lunatic, who -- with the help of some quick math -- dialed her man 1,250 times per week, 178 times per day and seven times per hour. HopefullyJustin Bieber’s “Baby” is not his ringtone.

There’s no doubt that some women love to call, but this redefines excessive. The best part might be that she doesn’t seem to think so as she argued to the judge that her behavior was in fact normal. 

Dare we ask how many Facebook posts and text messages she also sent? The court ordered her never to contact him again.

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why we Fall In Love

if you’re wondering why the Princess Jasmine shunned Aladdin for so long, it’s just because women need a little more time to know they’re in love.

A recent study of 1,500 men and 1,500 women showed that 20% of guys fell in love at first sight, with nearly half of them saying they were love-drunk after just one meeting.

In contrast, the fairer sex was far more calculated about the business of love. Only 10% of women have fallen in love at first sight, and most didn’t determine whether it was the real thing until after six dates.

In the questionnaires, researchers found that men were checking off boxes such as “looks” as an important factor of being in love, whereas women were more deliberate across the board.

Because males are quicker to the trigger, on average, men said they had fallen in love three times in their lives, whereas women averaged out only once.

Men are also more likely to say “I love you” first and have a higher frequency of loving a woman who didn’t reciprocate. 

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BY DAVE GOLOKHOV

How to Supersize Your Penis

After receiving much e-mail in regards to penis size and rigidity (or lack thereof), today's sex tip focuses on how you can make your penis harder and, in essence, appear and feel bigger. Please keep in mind that this tip does not focus onerectile dysfunction or impotence, but rather helping men fine-tune their members.

As men get older, many factors can contribute to the loss of penis strength and sexual potential. Our lower bodies need tune-ups, much like car engines do. Blood congestion around and within the sexual organ will cause problems and make many men lose strength in their penises and their sexual potential will, in turn, suffer.

But fear not, for there are solutions to your sexual dilemma. If you follow these simple instructions and make the necessary changes in your lifestyle, then it's likely that your penis will reach its full potential.

Make It Harder

The following suggestions do not guarantee changes, but may help improve many of your insecurities and shortcomings. Keep in mind, though, that a positive attitude will lead to a positive outcome.

Exercise

In order to maintain a full-on erection, you must keep your blood flowing; after all, it's via bloodflow that you achieve an erection at all. By exercising regularly, your blood circulation will improve immensely and will therefore remove blood congestion, allowing circulation to properly resume into your penis.

Improve Your Diet

Consume more soy products, fresh vegetables, fruits, and fish, and keep fatty foods to a minimum. Your diet effects your overall wellness and if you want to be at your best, treat your body like a temple and your penis will reap the benefits.

Take Herbal & Vitamin Supplements

When it comes to sexual performance, one little drawback can lead to a vicious circle. Keep your energy up with supplements such as ginseng and vitamin B12. A boost in energy can lead to a boost in confidence, which can ultimately lead to an increase in penis girth.Natural supplements can also help your exercise regimens.

Give Up Alcohol, Tobacco & Drugs

It's no secret that all drugs are harmful and unnecessary. If you smoke, then quit as soon as possible because it's a little known fact that smokers have weaker erections than non-smokers. Capillaries and blood veins contract when smoke enters the body, inhibiting blood flow and preventing the penis from reaching its full "potential." Even prescribed medication can diminish your penile potential. If possible, try using herbal alternatives instead -- but consult your doctor first.

Massage Your Groin Area Frequently

Just as exercise helps the blood flow more adequately, so too does massage. Now I'm not suggesting that you masturbate compulsively, rather massage your penis and the surrounding area to get your blood circulating and your sexual energy up. Daily massages, just like exercise, can help improve the situation.

It's All Up To You

Perhaps you were expecting some miraculous cure for what ails you. Although these suggestions may sound somewhat tedious and untrue, they are, in fact, important aspects of sexual growth and energy.

Confidence is probably the most important aspect of any sexual experience you're going to have. But if you practice all the aforementioned suggestions, then your confidence will certainly flourish.

BY DAVID STROVNY

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How to Fake Orgasms

• What You Need To Know
• It's the screamers and the thrashers who are very often the fakers.
• Pacing of breath, body temperature and muscle tension all indicate a state of orgasm.
• Women fake orgasms for reasons like stress, performance anxiety and body-image issues.

"Lots of women are faking it - and getting away with it. "

OK, guys, think your wife or girlfriend isn’t faking it? Or that faking only happens in other people’s bedrooms? Think again. According to the recently published National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 85% of men said that their partner had experienced an orgasm during their most recent sexual event, while only 64% of women reported actually having had an orgasm. The implication: Lots of women are faking it -- and getting away with it. 

Why Women Fake Orgasms

“Find me a women’s magazine whose cover doesn’t include screaming headlines about the 764 varieties of orgasm every woman is supposed to be having each time she has sex,” writes my colleague Emily Nagoski in the Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms. “In reality, life gets in the way: stress, depression, anxiety, body image, performance anxiety (women get it too), sleep deprivation, feeling rushed (women take, on average, 10 to 30 minutes to orgasm) -- all interfere with orgasm. So sometimes women fake it.”

Recognize The Real Thing

The best way to tell if a woman is faking orgasms is to know how to recognize the real thing. Signs of arousal become visible throughout the process of sexual response, particularly during the pre-orgasm phase.

So what are these signs? How can you tell when she’s close to orgasm? Throughout the ages, wise men have reflected upon this question, and in The Tao of Love and Sex, author Jolan Chang offers us the “indications of female arousal,” as laid out by Taoist master Wu Hsien:

“Her hands are hot and her abdomen warm, and at the same time her language becomes almost unintelligible. Her expression looks as though she is bewitched, her body is soft as jelly and her limbs are droopy. The saliva under her tongue has been sucked dry.”

Well, OK, though today’s man might not notice if “the saliva under her tongue has been sucked dry,” he is apt to observe:

•    An increase in the pace of her breathing
•    An increase in body temperature and heart rate
•    A high state of tension in her muscles (hypertonicity)
•    A tightening of the abdominal muscles
•    A throbbing of her PC muscles and a general “bearing down” on the pelvic area

As she releases sexual tension through orgasm, her vagina and uterus will contract, on average, 10 to 15 times, with each contraction lasting approximately 8/10ths of a second. Her rectal sphincter contracts anywhere from two to five times, as well. Attendant to these genital and rectal contractions is the tensing and releasing, in spasm, of many of the muscles throughout her body, including arms, legs, neck, and face. Even her toes will bend and arch forward. 

Recognize She's Faking It

While many women can duplicate the characteristics of orgasm, including the contractions of the PC muscles, it’s unlikely she could manufacture 8 to 10 of these contractions in less than 20 seconds, especially in combination with all the other visible characteristics.

But, in truth, most women know that when faking it, they needn’t bother portraying a convincing facsimile of the real thing, when they can simply offer up a porn-inspired performance of those characteristics that are most likely to fool and please men: lots of sound and fury, which, in the end, is nothing more than smoke and mirrors. It’s the screamers and the thrashers who are very often the fakers. 

At Good in Bed, we know that that an orgasm doesn’t come out of nowhere. It’s the final exclamation point on a sentence that you’ve been writing all along. If the final flourish feels unearned or out of the blue, then it likely is.

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how to Meet Ron Zacapa Rums

Whenever we think of Rum we think that rum is made and its Caribbean drink.But Ron Zacapa rum which is made  different then the other rum.Ron Zacapa is making premium rum ,dark rum and aged rum made in eastern Guatemala near the Pacific coast 229 m. above the sea level the town of  Zacapa.It is interesting that Zacapa rum is not using molasses like other rums but it is made from pure sugar cane honey or pressing of sugar can juice which are  boiled and it is  allowed to be thicken.This kind of fantastic rum is distilled and  stored in selected barrels to continue the maturation process.During the rum’s aging process 23 year tenure in the cellars, every facet of its environment is monitored,  the temperature, humidity, light, and even sound levels.Zacapa's location is at 8,000 feet above sea and that kind  also contributes to rum unique flavor.That process or method its called Solera method and it can be used to create sherry,which is very slower but  it is more gentle aging process and that is why the Zacapa rum has unique taste and spirit.

To join the Zacapa Society, simply register at http://bit.ly/pvKdC9  and find what real rum is.